Feelings or emotions are not just meant to be kept within oneself. It is said, out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. In marriage or relationship, feelings for spouse is not to be hidden, rather, it’s better spoken. What do you think about letting your spouse know, you will never leave them but you will love them always? This is not necessarily pre-wedding or marriage vows.
The pressures and problems you face in marriage, may tend to deprive you the joy and happiness you had expected to have in marriage. You don’t allow these challenges push you down. You don’t allow your feelings for your spouse to be determined by circumstances. You determine what you give out. This shows you are mature.
Your husband or wife appreciates it when you whisper it to them, “babe, I love you”. “Princess, you are the best”. Whether good or bad, put in that small vibe that reminds your spouse those early days. These feelings are not meant to be hidden and expected to be dug out by your spouse.
To praise is to raise the spirit and the powers of the one being praised and the one giving praise. – Robert Collier.
In other words, when you praise your spouse, you also remind him/her of your commitment to him/her. You are not only committed, you are also committing your spouse. Your spouse will never get tired of hearing those pleasant and love filled words from you, it doesn’t matter how many times you say it. Save your spouse the energy and reduce the stress of figuring it out by just saying it.
You may not understand the excitement you spouse feels when you say “darling, you are the best”. How does your spouse know he has done something great, if you don’t tell them? You not only keep your spouse happy when you call them on phone and ask, “Honey, when are you coming home”, whenever your spouse travels. “Sweetheart, I can’t wait to see you back”. These sentences do not only tell them that someone is waiting for them at home, they also remind them that they are married. With this consciousness, they are not going to look at other sexes out there. Hence, they remain committed to you and you alone.
Your wife may never know the new hair she made is well-styled except you say it. Likewise, your husband may never know you appreciate his dressing if you never say it. Let your wife know how much you love her, even with an ounce added.
No matter how tight your schedules are, put a call across to your spouse and say, “how are you dear? I called to hear your voice”. They will always appreciate it. Remember, women are moved by what they hear. My dear keep filling her with those romantic word, and she will never forget in a haste. Sometimes you call her and tell her all the things you are going to buy her when you get back. You need to keep pushing it in marriage. Keep reaching out. Keep saying those words. Reaffirm them and mean them. By this way, you keep the romance and love in your marriage renewed.